I remember when I was a child, all I did was play! When I
would come home from school and after my homework I would play, on the weekends
I would play and during school closings/holidays I would play. If the weather
was nice I would play outside until it was time for dinner and if I had some
extra time after dinner then I would play before bed. Barbie dolls were my
favorite toy to play with. I had all things Barbie! I had the Barbie Dream
House, Barbie limo, cars & trucks, Barbie clothes and accessories, collectable
barbies and a Barbie traveling case to keep my dolls in. Whenever I would play
with my barbies, I would make up stories about their lives and I would act out
the stories while playing. When my friends would come over, we would share our
Barbie collection with one another and collaborate stories to act out. Our
imagination would run wild with the stories we would act out. Sometimes we
would make up our own stories and other times we would act out scenes from
movies or things we seen our parents do. Not only would I act out stories but I
would also make clothes for my barbies. My grandmother was a seamstress and I
would imitate her by making clothes for my dolls. It is interesting that all of
my dress making for my dolls had paid off into a current business I have making
evening and wedding gowns for women.
When I
would play outside, I loved playing Hide and Seek and Tag. I always seemed to
find the best hiding spots because I would rarely be found. I wasn’t a big fan
of riding bikes but I enjoyed skating while holding on to the back of my cousin’s
bike. Around my neighborhood I would often go exploring with my friends. We
would act as if we were going on an adventure while hiking through the wooded
areas. I even remember going through this “Harriet the Spy” phase. Harriet the
Spy was a movie about a precocious preteen who would spy on everyone including
her friends and neighbors. I would go around spying on everyone in my neighborhood
and my friends would spy with me. We would jot down things we saw in mini
notebooks and collected things we found. It was so much fun to just explore our
environment freely. Our neighborhood was not always the safest but it seemed
like the elders in the neighborhood would protect us and everyone stuck
together to raise the children in the community.
Since my mom was an Early
Childhood Professional, play was encouraged in my household. My mom would often
join in with me while I played with my Barbie dolls. She would follow my lead and act out the
stories that I created for the dolls. When I reflect back on that time in my
life, I just remember how enthused and engaged my mother was in my play. Our
family was big on board and card games. We would often play Monopoly, Clue,
Sorry, Uno, Goldfish and Pokeno. Pokeno was our family favorite. We would have
a family game night every Friday just about and we would play Pokeno for
pennies and sometimes quarters. I would rack up in pennies to put in my piggy
bank because I was pretty good at playing the game. Another family favorite was
Spades. Spades was typically the adult’s game but my mom taught me how to play
so I play it now as an adult.
In today’s society, children
live for technology. With ipads, tablets, tvs and video games, children has
lost the art of open play. Children are not given the freedom to explore and
create the way they did when I was younger. I remember cartoons were a luxury
to enjoy on Saturday mornings only or if you had cable with the Disney Channel
and Nickelodeon then it was still limited to just the weekends. Some children
as young as 9 months are sat in front of the tv and some toddlers can operate
an Iphone better than I can. Many children play video games and that is about
the most play they actually participate in. Some kids do not go outside like we
used to and that is primarily because the neighborhoods are not as safe as they
used to be. I feel that play is focused a bit more in the early childhood field
but once a child enters grade school, it is not encouraged much. I hope that
people see the value in play and encourage it more for the next generation to benefit
from.
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Hi Tia! I think you and Comesha should talk because she also has a love for Barbie toys. I also made up stories for my Barbies when I was younger. These stories were actually written down and I said one day I would write a book. My inspiration was soap operas that my mother watched. I agree that today children are too engrossed in electronic play. Now they can argue that they are able to play with other kids from around the world with things such as XBOX Live, but it is not the same type of play as when we were children. I told my kids that I had a pager when I was 17 and not a cellphone, especially expensive I-phones. It is really sad to see babies and toddlers that sit for hours in front of the TV, what the parent doesn't realize is that they are missing valuable time they could be helping with their child's growth and development if they spent less TV time and more play time. My mother played with me when I was younger and I play with my children today. I limit the electronic video game time with my boys and it is taken away completely if they do not keep up with their school work. Iv'e said it before but I believe that lack of information is the reason why many parents do not engage or encourage more play time with their children. If they really knew all the benefits then this could help motivate them to encourage and interact with age appropriate play with their children.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing.
Myra
Tia,
ReplyDeleteI believe we are kindred souls!!! LOL, OMG...The first quote you put was the exact one I chose and the love of Barbie's is definitely a thing I had when I was young and even today. It is funny that Myra posted that you should talk to me because as I was reading your blog I was like, we are so much alike. Also the outdoor play was an always with me as well, I grew up in the country and there was nothing but time, space and opportunity to play and makeup games and fantasy worlds. I really wish that children today had the same experiences with play as we do. Electronics, phones, and social media are taking over and it is a scary thing to think about. I really enjoyed reading your post.